xyz_from_string() functions defined with DEFINE_STRING_TABLE_LOOKUP() properly
handle NULL strings already. make sure the equivalent functions defined with
DEFINE_STRING_TABLE_LOOKUP_WITH_BOOLEAN() do the same.
In a couple of cases we maintain configuration settings that know an on
and off state, like a boolean, plus some additional states. We generally
parse them as booleans first, and if that fails check for specific
additional values.
This adds a generalized set of macros for parsing such settings, and
ports one use in resolved and another in networkd over to it.
