Let's not leak details from src/shared and src/libsystemd into
src/basic, even though you can't actually do anything useful with
just forward declarations from src/shared.
The sd-forward.h header is put in src/libsystemd/sd-common as we
don't have a directory for shared internal headers for libsystemd
yet.
Let's also rename forward.h to basic-forward.h to keep things
self-explanatory.
I put the helper functions in a separate header file, because they don't fit
anywhere else. pthread_mutex_{lock,unlock} is used in two places: nss-systemd
and hashmap. I don't indent to convert hashmap to use the helpers, because
there it'd make the code more complicated. Is it worth to create a new header
file even if the only use is in nss-systemd.c? I think yes, because it feels
clean and also I think it's likely that pthread_mutex_{lock,unlock} will be
used in other places later.